| Activity | Role | Desire (Yes, No, Maybe) | Experience Level (1-10) | Role | Desire (Yes, No, Maybe) | Experience Level (1-10) | Watching (Yes, No) | |||||
| 24/7 (Power Exchange) | Dominant | Submissive | ||||||||||
| Abrasion | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Age Play | Older | Younger | ||||||||||
| Anal Plug (Large) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Anal Plug (Public, Under clothes) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Anal Plug (Small) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Anal Sex (Penetration by penis) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Animal Roles | Owner/Trainer | Animal | ||||||||||
| Arm and Leg Sleeves (Arm binders) | Applying | Wearing | ||||||||||
| Aromas | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Asphyxiation (Choking) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Asphyxiation (Smothering) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Ass Play | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Auctioned For Charity | Selling | Being Sold | ||||||||||
| Aural Sensory Deprivation | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Bathroom Use Control | Controling | Being Controlled | ||||||||||
| Beating (Hard) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Beating (Soft) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Being Serviced (Sexual) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Belt (For Spanking) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Bestiality | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Biting | Biting | Being Bitten | ||||||||||
| Blindfold | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Blood Drawing | Drawing | Bleeding | ||||||||||
| Body Hair | Having Hair | Sharing Hair | ||||||||||
| Body Harness (Leather / Rope) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Body Odors | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Bondage (Heavy) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Bondage (Light) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Bondage (Multi-day) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Bondage (Public, Under Clothing) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Boot Worship | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Boots (Fetish) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Branding | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Breast Bondage | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Breast Clamping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Breast Torture | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Breast Whipping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Breath Control | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Brown Showers (Scat/Enema) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Bukkake | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Buttocks Play | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Caging | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Caning | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Castration (Fantasy) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Catheterization | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cattle Prod (Electrical Toy) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| CBT (Cock And Ball Torture) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cells/Closets (Locked Inside) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Chains | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Chamber Pot Use | Using | Watched While Using | ||||||||||
| Chastity | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Chastity Belts | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Chauffeuring | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Chinese/Ben Wa Balls | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Choking | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Chores | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Clamping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Clothespins | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Clothing Restrictions | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cock Whipping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cock Worship | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Cockrings/straps | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Collar and Leash | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Collars (Private) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Collars (Public) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Competitions (With Other Subs) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Corsets (Trained Waist Reduction) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Corsets (Wearing Casually) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Crying/Tears | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Cuckhold | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cuffs (Leather) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cuffs (Metal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cupping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Cutting | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Deep Throating | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Depilation/Shaving | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Diapers (Soiling) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Diapers (Wearing) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Diapers (Wetting) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Dilation (Anal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Dilation (Urethral) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Dilation (Vaginal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Dildos | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Dirty Talk | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Dirty/Messy | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Discipline | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Doctor | Doctor | Patient | ||||||||||
| Domination | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Door Frame | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Double Penetration | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Douche | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Electricity | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Electro-stimulation/-torture | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Enemas (For Cleansing) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Enemas (Retention/Punishment) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Enforced Chastity | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Erotic Dance (Audience) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Erotic Dance (Private) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Examinations (Medical) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Examinations (Physical) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Exercise (Forced/Required) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Exhibitionism (Friends) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Exhibitionism (Strangers) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Eye Contact Restrictions | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Face Slapping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Fantasy Abandonment | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Fantasy Gang Rape | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Fantasy Rape | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Fear (Being Scared) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Fire/Flame | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Fisting (Anal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Fisting (Vaginal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Flame Play | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Floating Table | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Following Orders | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Food Play | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Food Restrictions | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Foot Fetish | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Foot Worship | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Forced Bedwetting | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Crossdressing | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Eating | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Heterosexuality | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Homosexuality | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Masturbation | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Nudity (Around Others) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Nudity (Private) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Servitude | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Forced Smoking | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Full Head Hoods | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gags (Cloth) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gags (Inflatable) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gags (Phallic) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gags (Rubber) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gags (Tape) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gangbang | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Garters | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gas Masks | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gates of Hell (Male) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Genital Sex | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Given Away To Another Dom (Temporary) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Given Away To Another Person (Permanent) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Golden Showers | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Gun Play | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Hair Pulling | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Hairbrush Spankings | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Hand Jobs | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Handcuffs | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Harems (Serving With Others) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Harnessing (Leather) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Harnessing (Rope) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Head (Oral To Penile Sex) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| High Heel Wearing | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| High Heel Worship | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Homage With Tongue (Non-sexual) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Hoods | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Hot Oils (On Genitals) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Housework (Doing) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Humiliation (Private) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Humiliation (Public) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Hypnotism | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Ice Cubes | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Immobilization | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Infantilism | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Initiation Rites | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Injections | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Interrogations | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Intricate (Japanese) Rope Bondage | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Iron Maiden | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Kidnapping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Kitty Play | Owner | Animal | ||||||||||
| Kneeling | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Knife Play | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Lactation | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Latex | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Leather Clothing | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Leather Restraints | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Lectures For Misbehavior | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Licking (Non-sexual) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Lingerie (Viewing) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Lingerie (Wearing) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Manacles And Irons | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Manicures | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Masks | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Masochism | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Massage | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Master | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Masturbation | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Medical Scenes | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Menstruation | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Modeling For Erotic Photos | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Mouth Bits | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Mummification | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Name Change (In Scene) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Name Change (Legal, Permanent) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Needles | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Nipple Clamps | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Nipple Rings (Piercing) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Nipple Weights | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Nipples | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Nun | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Nurse | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Objectification | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Oral Fixation | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Oral Sex | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Oral to Anal play (Rimming) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Orgasm Control | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Orgasm Denial | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Outdoor Scenes | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Outdoor Sex | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Over-the-knee Spanking | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Paddling | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Pain (Mild) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Pain (Severe) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Panties | Watching Worn | Wearing | ||||||||||
| Pantyhose | Watching Worn | Wearing | ||||||||||
| Persona Training (In Scene) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Personality Modification (In Real Life) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Phone Sex (Commercial Provider) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Phone Sex (Serving Dom) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Phone sex (Serving Dom's Friends) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Photography | Photographer | Model | ||||||||||
| Piercing (Permanent) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Piercing (Temporary, Play Piercing) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Pinching | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Plastic Surgery | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Plastic Wrap | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Pony Play | Owner / Trainer | Animal | ||||||||||
| Pony Slave | Having | Being | ||||||||||
| Priest | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Prison Scenes | Prisoner | |||||||||||
| Prostitution (Actual) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Prostitution (Public Pretense, Role Play) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Public Exposure | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Punishment Scenes | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Puppy Play | Owner | Animal | ||||||||||
| Pussy Whipping | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Pussy Worship | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Queening | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Religious Scenes | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Restrictive Rules On Behavior | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Riding Crops | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Riding The "Horse" (Crotch Torture) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Rimming | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Rituals | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Rope Body Harness | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Rubber | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Rubber/Latex clothing | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Sadism | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Scarification | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Scat | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Scents | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| School Girl | Watching | Being | ||||||||||
| Scratching | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Scrotum Stretching | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Sensory Deprivation | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Serving | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Serving Another Dom (Supervised) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Serving Another Dom (Unsupervised) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Serving As A Maid | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Serving As A Toilet (Feces) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Serving As A Toilet (Urine) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Serving As An Ash Tray | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Serving As Art | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Serving As Furniture | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Serving As Waitress/Waiter | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Serving Orally (Sexual) | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Sexual Deprivation (Long Term) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Sexual Deprivation (Short Term) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Shaving (Body Hair) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Shaving (Head) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Shoes | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Skinny-dipping | Watching | Swimming | ||||||||||
| Slave | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Sleep Deprivation | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Sleep Sacks | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Slutty Clothing (Private) | Watching | Wearing | ||||||||||
| Slutty Clothing (Public) | Watching | Wearing | ||||||||||
| Spandex Clothing | Watching | Wearing | ||||||||||
| Spanking | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Spanking Bench | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Speculums (Anal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Speculums (Vaginal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Speech Restrictions | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Spitting | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Spreader Bars | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| St. Andrew's Cross | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Standing In Corner | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Stockings | Watching | Wearing | ||||||||||
| Stocks | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Straight Jackets | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Strap-on Dildos (Penetration) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Strap-on-dildos (Sucking On) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Strap-on-dildos (Wearing) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Strapping (Full Body Beating) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Supplying New Partners For Dom | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Suspension (Horizontal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Suspension (Inverted) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Suspension (Upright) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Swallowing Feces | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Swallowing Semen | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Swallowing Urine | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Swapping (With One Other Couple) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Swinging (Multiple Couples) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Tampon Training (Anal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| TASER | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Tattooing | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Teasing | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| TENS Unit (Electrical Toy) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| The Rack | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Thumb Cuffs (Metal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Tickling | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Tongue Fetish | Receiving | Giving | ||||||||||
| Trampling | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Transvestitism | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Triple Penetration | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Uniforms | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Urethral Sounds (Metal Rods) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Vacuum Bed | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Vacuum Play | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Vaginal Dildo | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Verbal Humiliation | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Vibrator On Genitals | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Vibrators (Anal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Vibrators (Vaginal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Video (Recording Of You) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Video (Watching Others) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Violet Wand (Electrical Toy) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Visual Sensory Deprivation | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Voyeurism (Watching Others) | Watching | Participating | ||||||||||
| Water Sports | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Water Torture | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Wax (Sensual) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Waxing (Hair Removal) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Weight Gain (Forced) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Weight Loss (Forced) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Whipping (Flogger) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Whipping (Single Tail) | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Whipping Post | Giving | Receiving | ||||||||||
| Wrestling | Giving | Receiving |