Scene Negotiation

(The following should be the least of subjects addressed

before most BDSM scenes take place)

1. Is there a certain type of scene that is desired for training or conditioning?
2. Will the scene be for sensation play and stimulation purposes only?
3. What is to be the mood or tone of the scene?
4. Are there to be any time constraints on the scene?
5. Will there be limitations as to partial or full nudity?
6. Will there be limitations as to direct touching of erogenous zones?
7. What physical limitations must be adhered to?
8. What medical conditions are there?
9. What types of bondage are to be considered?
10. What types of "toys" are to be considered?
11. What positions must be considered?
12. Are photos desired?
13. What type of furniture may be employed?
14. Is participation by others desired or allowed?
15. What level of intensity is desired or allowed?
16. What risk level(s) are to be considered?
17. What type and level of after-care will be desired or needed?
18. What level of trust is there between the top and the bottom?